The Laws of Marriage
Is arrange marriage equally wonderful as love marriage?
I have been wondering about the concept of arrange marriage. How is it working from centuries even when there is no connection between the individuals? Or is it love at first sight?
Indians run around searching for their soulmate. Biodata and photos are passed to all potential families. Families meet, and let the boy and girl talk and find if they are meant for each other or in many areas that too is not considered proper. Sometimes it is difficult to find in one meeting, so a series of meetings take place. Its really hard to find out if they have any connection no matter how many meeting they attend.Or am I being too mean.
But the numbers show that arrange marriages are far better than love ones. How is that possible? Is it that the patner loses interest and therefore doesnt want to complain? Is it the pressure from the families that let them unite or in other words dont let them seperate?
Or is it that in love marriages partner excise there free will and their egos are at stake, therefore they seperate? Or is it that the patner loses respect for the other?
Writers, bloggers, enviromentalist may have writen thousands of lines on this topic but none has ever been able to find the secret, then, how can I? Let this remain a secret and let the time come when I post the real situation.
Can you take a chance to crack this secret?